If you have siblings, you are no stranger to conflict. My brothers and I didn’t battle often, but we certainly argued from time to time. Even if you and your siblings are two peas in a pod, you are still two separate peas. Conflict is friction, the energy from resistance of two objects or in this case two people encountering each other. You can either waste that energy fuming about how the other person is crazy or illogical, or you can try to learn from their response. I generally try to lean toward learning because who wants to be out here wasting energy?